Competition Where?

Think about how nature does...it grows, blossom ,flourish to its fullest potential with the right amount of care but it never stops to think. "How are the other trees/flowers doing?" Us as people should live our lives the same way. Never compete with the next person. The things and lifestyle that is meant for other people is what is meant for them not you or anyone else. The key factor is if your not receiving the right amount of care you can't grow to your fullest potential. You have to make sure the care you are receiving is pure and 100% for your well-being and success. No one is in control of your growth other than yourself. You choose the company you keep and situations you nurture to flourish based on what you need to succeed. The thought of never competing and just living for self and the most high is the most peaceful thing you can do for your growth process. There is absolutely nothing wrong with a friendly competition but basing your life on what other people are doing will drive you crazy and ultimately leave you unhappy. Setting customized goals that don't include other people is probably the best thing you can do to kick off your self love and happiness journey. Some people thrive off of trying to be and do better than the next person. If you just worry about yourself then you will be less stressed. Two quote I live by: "Who you racing? I'm already at the finish line with the flag waving." ~ Jay-Z & "Success is measured by your own personal happiness."~ Usher. I have no competition and neither do you if that is what you desire. But that's just ME.